Sending good thoughts your way!

I don't know everything that you have looked at for jobs, but have you ever considered working with people who have developmental disabilities? You are so patient, nurturing and such a good mom I think you would be excellent at it.

http://www.ddanj.org/

That is one place that I found in your area, but google "developmental disabilities in NJ" and a whole lot of stuff pops up.

I know we are ALWAYS hiring in this field. It is also helpful that in general it is very "queer friendly".

I would hire you if you were anywhere close to me. Message me if you have any questions.